Pet Quality Of Life Information in Birmingham, AL
We understand that the needs of your pet change as they age.
Assessing the quality of life of your pet can be difficult. Quality of life means different things to each family that we work with and is highly dependent on the disease process your pet is suffering from and the overall personality of your pet. We are here to help you through this most important stage of life. The resources below can help to evaluate your pet’s quality of life in different ways. If you would like to do an assessment of your pet’s quality of life or discuss end-of-life care for your pet, please reach out.
Assessing the quality of life of your pet can be difficult. Quality of life means different things to each family that we work with and is highly dependent on the disease process your pet is suffering from and the overall personality of your pet. We are here to help you through this most important stage of life. The resources below can help to evaluate your pet’s quality of life in different ways. If you would like to do an assessment of your pet’s quality of life or discuss end-of-life care for your pet, please reach out.
Quality of Life Resources
- Ohio State Veterinary Quality of Life Checklist
⊙ Quality of Life Checklist - University of Tennessee Quality of Life Scale
⊙ Quality-of-Life.pdf (utk.edu) - Lap Of Love Quality of Life Scale
⊙ Lap of Love-Pet QOL Scale-pg 1.indd - How Will I know when it’s time?
⊙ How Will I Know It's Time In-Home Euthanasia (lapoflove.com)
Pet Loss Support Resources
- Grief Support Groups in Birmingham
⊙ Grief recovery support groups in Birmingham, Alabama - GriefShare - Online Pet Loss Services
⊙ Pet Loss Support | Lap of Love
⊙ Pet Loss Support Hotline: Support Group Links – Cummings School of Veterinary Medicine at Tufts University
⊙ Other Hotlines | Cornell University College of Veterinary Medicine - Pet Loss Websites
⊙ APLB
⊙ Rainbow Bridge - A PetLoss Grief Support Community. Pet Bereavement and Memorial support for coping with the death of a loving fur baby. (rainbowsbridge.com)
⊙ Pet Loss Support » Small Animal Hospital » College of Veterinary Medicine » University of Florida (ufl.edu)
Helping Children When a Pet Dies
- Death and dying are two of the hardest facts of life to explain to children. Very often, the loss of a family pet is the first encounter a child may have with death. A pet symbolizes many things to each child, such as a playmate and a sibling. A pet loves unconditionally, is faithful, patient, and always welcoming. This is a difficult adjustment for children when the pet dies and is no longer there to welcome them at the door, lick their arms and legs, and play.
Explaining Pet Loss to Children
- Be open and honest – don’t lie or use euphemisms like “gone away,” “passed on,” or “lost” – this only clouds understanding and can increase fear. Use the words “death” and “dying” to make your meaning clear. Keep the explanation simple.
Make sure the child understands (at their developmental age level) what “dying” means.
Share your feelings regarding the death and validate the child. Let them know it is ok to be angry, disappointed, or cry.
Encourage conversations about the deceased pet and what the child misses about the pet. One of the best ways to explain pet loss to children is to read them a story.
Some Ways Parents and Caregivers Can Help A Child Memorialize Their Pet
- Have a memorial service/burial/placement of ashes.
- Create a memory box or book.
- Plant a tree or garden in remembrance of the pet.
- Write a goodbye letter or poem.
- Write or sing a song about the pet
- Get a paw imprint from the pet
- Draw or paint a goodbye picture.
- Watch for your child’s cues that indicate he/she may be ready for a new pet. Children need some time between the death of their pet and caring for a new one.
Remember that children are quite resilient and usually are able to accept the death of their pets. However, if your child appears to be upset for a prolonged period of time or if you are concerned about their reactions to the loss of their pet, talk with a professional who is familiar with childhood grief.
Books for Kids
- The Legend of the Rainbow Bridge by William N. Britton
- Saying Goodbye to Lulu by Corinne Demas
- The Rainbow by Bridge Niki Behrikis Shanahan
- Goodbye Mog by Judith Kerr
- I’ll Always Love You by Hans Wilheim
- Dog Heaven by Cynthia Rylant
- Cat Heaven by Cynthia Rylant
- The 10th Best Thing About Barney by Judith Viorst